Is physical attraction important only?
Young people wonder if physical attraction is important only while falling in love, or even when one has to marry. To have an ideal life partner for marriage is wishful thinking. Of all the relationships the matrimonial one is the most important. It is the face that attracts a couple to each other. That is just a physical attribute. But that is not sufficient to sustain a life in togetherness. Therefore it is important for people of any faith to have a balance of mental stimulation and physical attraction before they marry each other.
Nowadays a wedding is not only a union of a bride and groom and their families. But it is an amalgamation of many qualities which include their capability to vibe mentally and physically. When one is young the physical attributes like strength, beauty are given importance. As the relationship in marriage matures, the hue of physical romance changes to more rational challenges. A couple needs to be on the same page for various issues pertaining to their lives and family and work. The romance is replaced by a life full of love. Thus a young girl often prefers to marry a groom at least five years her elder. They are able to think alike. And as they grow older, and the physical appearance changes it is the bond of love that keeps them going. The beauty of the youth is replaced by the maturity of the grey years. And this is the eternal shadi story of every couple.
Nowadays a wedding is not only a union of a bride and groom and their families. But it is an amalgamation of many qualities which include their capability to vibe mentally and physically. When one is young the physical attributes like strength, beauty are given importance. As the relationship in marriage matures, the hue of physical romance changes to more rational challenges. A couple needs to be on the same page for various issues pertaining to their lives and family and work. The romance is replaced by a life full of love. Thus a young girl often prefers to marry a groom at least five years her elder. They are able to think alike. And as they grow older, and the physical appearance changes it is the bond of love that keeps them going. The beauty of the youth is replaced by the maturity of the grey years. And this is the eternal shadi story of every couple.
What is more important looks or good family background
The older generation married young. A girl and boy became a bride and groom when they were still minors. In many Asian societies this is till the norm. But now the age limit of getting married has increased. When a couple decide for an arranged marriage, the knowledge of the family background is essential for both. A life partner is searched often with a lot of care. The initial importance is given to the looks of the life partner. To marry a fine person with a good family background is the cherished dream for all. When the couple is of the similar family ground and class they are likely to have a better shot at their marriage.
All relationships do not follow the same pattern. A matrimonial alliance can also be of a groom from a rich family falling in love with a girl from a simple family. The bride’s good looks and breeding is important. Such a wedding alliance is also acceptable. With a combination of good looks and sound family background the girl is able to gel well in her new home. She comes as a life partner to the groom’s home with traditional values and becomes an asset.
Sometimes a person may not be good looking but may have a golden heart and a nice personality. Even such a person qualifies for a shadi. They prove to be dedicated life partners. If not for their looks they make up for their character. A marriage to such a person is also successful one.
All relationships do not follow the same pattern. A matrimonial alliance can also be of a groom from a rich family falling in love with a girl from a simple family. The bride’s good looks and breeding is important. Such a wedding alliance is also acceptable. With a combination of good looks and sound family background the girl is able to gel well in her new home. She comes as a life partner to the groom’s home with traditional values and becomes an asset.
Sometimes a person may not be good looking but may have a golden heart and a nice personality. Even such a person qualifies for a shadi. They prove to be dedicated life partners. If not for their looks they make up for their character. A marriage to such a person is also successful one.
Qualities of a good life partner
A life partner has many meanings, but the most common is when it is used for the person who is cherished as a spouse. The characteristic of such a person is that of an understanding nature. This is one of the main qualities of a good life partner.
A marriage is a car that runs on the four wheels of love, understanding, care and sharing. All the precious moments shared begin for the couple as a bride and groom. And then for life the matrimonial alliance is set. This happens in case of arranged and love marriages. It is important that both the bride and groom become friends and be honest with each other through their life. This is the key to happiness. One of the real good qualities of a life partner is admitting to mistakes. This keeps the channel of communication and level of trust open. Many couples tend to lose momentum once the wedding vows are done. But the romance can be kept alive with sweet little surprises. Helping the spouse to lessen the burden is an important trait for the life partner these days. Balancing the career with the family and giving quality time also helps in making the relationship successful. When little gestures of affection are executed, the marriage is no long boring but blissful. A thoughtful partner will not forget to help in the household chores. Being good with the relatives and friends of the spouse are also considered healthy to keep one’s shadi like an unbreakable bond.
A marriage is a car that runs on the four wheels of love, understanding, care and sharing. All the precious moments shared begin for the couple as a bride and groom. And then for life the matrimonial alliance is set. This happens in case of arranged and love marriages. It is important that both the bride and groom become friends and be honest with each other through their life. This is the key to happiness. One of the real good qualities of a life partner is admitting to mistakes. This keeps the channel of communication and level of trust open. Many couples tend to lose momentum once the wedding vows are done. But the romance can be kept alive with sweet little surprises. Helping the spouse to lessen the burden is an important trait for the life partner these days. Balancing the career with the family and giving quality time also helps in making the relationship successful. When little gestures of affection are executed, the marriage is no long boring but blissful. A thoughtful partner will not forget to help in the household chores. Being good with the relatives and friends of the spouse are also considered healthy to keep one’s shadi like an unbreakable bond.
Money is more important than a compatible life partner.
Although being married is blissful, not all couples agree. This is because the reality shows that divorces also contribute to unhappy lives. A relationship between two people breaks over money and familial ties. Is money more important that a compatible life partner? To a certain extent the answer is yes. One cannot live only on fresh air and love. At some point money matters enter the relationship. It is the key to survive the shadi blues. A healthy life partner will keep money matters on a tight leash. For a marriage to endure it has to have a financial backing. In some cases even if the life partner is not compatible in other areas, the financial worth keeps the marriage going. This is mostly done to ensure that the kids do not suffer. Hence all matters pertaining to money should be discussed before the actual wedding.
There are some people who insist that compatibility is the main mantra for the bride and groom to walk the path of married life. One has to go through a relationship exercise much more a life partner is chosen. Once you know that the life partner you are choosing will pass the compatibility test then rest is assured. This test includes the life partner’s belief in religion/faith, principles, values, money communication, family, friends and hobbies. All this should be figured during the period of dating. The bride and groom should remove all discrepancy between the money and compatibility. Once the matrimonial union is announced then it is difficult to backtrack.
There are some people who insist that compatibility is the main mantra for the bride and groom to walk the path of married life. One has to go through a relationship exercise much more a life partner is chosen. Once you know that the life partner you are choosing will pass the compatibility test then rest is assured. This test includes the life partner’s belief in religion/faith, principles, values, money communication, family, friends and hobbies. All this should be figured during the period of dating. The bride and groom should remove all discrepancy between the money and compatibility. Once the matrimonial union is announced then it is difficult to backtrack.
Getting to know groom from another country
So you met him over a cup of mocha and frappe at an international airport terminal and decided to give friendship a new meaning. Then you got chatting, sent mushy smses, forwarded love mails and burnt VoIP cards for the next 3 months. Soon also set up the wedding date to become one soul in two bodies. As a young girl, if you have chosen a groom from another country, just having this Mills and Boon whirlwind romance is not enough to marry. There is more information you need to know. Just learning that he has a great sense of humor, is fair and sweet looking isn’t sufficient.
Discover his secret personality and a little more about his family. It matters if you both have been raised in different cultural environments. Most girls adjust to the groom’s family, but will the groom and his family be equally respectful to the girl’s family-irrespective of the financial status of the family? Even if a girl will eventually be living alone, there may be times when parents may visit them. How can they adjust and make them feel comfortable? This is one of the critical issues to be clarified before wedding vows are taken.
While having a long distance relationship, trust is very important. Remember when you will be living together, you will have to share your husband with his friends, colleagues and acquaintances. Will the two of you be able to trust each other completely? Knowing this is also critical before marrying.
Discover his secret personality and a little more about his family. It matters if you both have been raised in different cultural environments. Most girls adjust to the groom’s family, but will the groom and his family be equally respectful to the girl’s family-irrespective of the financial status of the family? Even if a girl will eventually be living alone, there may be times when parents may visit them. How can they adjust and make them feel comfortable? This is one of the critical issues to be clarified before wedding vows are taken.
While having a long distance relationship, trust is very important. Remember when you will be living together, you will have to share your husband with his friends, colleagues and acquaintances. Will the two of you be able to trust each other completely? Knowing this is also critical before marrying.
Adjusting living abroad especially if going out for the first time
Many girls walk out of their cloistered environs only when they are getting married. Some girls walk out for the first time with palpitations in their hearts…wondering if they will be able to adjust living abroad. Quite a few relationships fail because wives have not adjusted to new laws and customs. If the groom works abroad then before marriage it is mandatory that one short trip be organised. This actually is the only sure shot way to know if the girl will be able to adjust to living in an alien environment. This exercise is essential as not all girls are able to understand the local culture in the new country. Adjusting does not only mean making compromises with the people around, but also to the place. Leaving your home, family, identity – in short your life, for a new one after marriage is not easy. And especially if that means adjusting to a new life outside the city or country where you were born and raised. The memories of the place, friends, family and the surroundings are so deep that it’s a Herculean task to erase them and settle into a new life at twitch of a second.
But that’s what marriage does to all women. We all do it, whether we like it or not. Adjusting living abroad is the worst of all – an alien man, an alien place, people whom you can’t identify with and certainly the new road and routes to map in the mind. Become adventurous!
But that’s what marriage does to all women. We all do it, whether we like it or not. Adjusting living abroad is the worst of all – an alien man, an alien place, people whom you can’t identify with and certainly the new road and routes to map in the mind. Become adventurous!
Getting to know rules and living patterns, rights of the country of residence
It’s a big adventurous life abroad, with lots of new avenues and openings for a young girl and to adapt a new culture and heritage. And what’s better than knowing everything about the new life, starting everything from ground zero – don’t you think it would be so exciting? There is a need for introspection after the flashlights (read wedding vows) have faded, the reality starts sinking in. So you will be away from the people you have known all your life, in an alien country about which you only read on internet on saw on Discovery Channel. Moving away to a new country will be daunting and nerve-racking at first, but will slowly turn into the most exciting chapter of your life.
So, before you go, just Google each and everything about that country. Find out their laws, research local customs and traditions, be on a lookout for friends, relatives who have been their earlier and get all the first-hand info you can gather. Each country has different rules and regulations. So it is really important to know whether you can adjust to them freely. For example if you are a vegetarian will you get your greens easily? Pick up handy tips to adjust with the new atmosphere. If possible and resources allow you, visit the place before you are actually going to live there. A sample can be experienced! Make a note of things that will be required for adjusting. That’s life, make the most of it after marriage.
So, before you go, just Google each and everything about that country. Find out their laws, research local customs and traditions, be on a lookout for friends, relatives who have been their earlier and get all the first-hand info you can gather. Each country has different rules and regulations. So it is really important to know whether you can adjust to them freely. For example if you are a vegetarian will you get your greens easily? Pick up handy tips to adjust with the new atmosphere. If possible and resources allow you, visit the place before you are actually going to live there. A sample can be experienced! Make a note of things that will be required for adjusting. That’s life, make the most of it after marriage.
Adopting rituals of local flavor- American rites or Australian rites
South East Asian weddings are different from their western counterparts. When a couple of different inter-faith is exchanging wedding vows it is not possible to follow the customs of only one culture. Rituals from the host country can be incorporated to make the wedding unusual and more memorable. After all even if the rituals are diverse the meaning of wedding is the same all over the world. It is bringing two sweat hearts closer to one another.
Despite traditions varying across ethnicity, language and region, traditional weddings are structured in similar manner with pre and post wedding ceremonies. If the wedding is taking place abroad, what more fun if some local flavor of that country is also added. It will only make the entire event memorable. For example in countries like America and Australia where many S E Asians live, work and marry there are few local options for the bridal couple to adopt. Use of bride maidens, use of gown instead of ethnic apparel and cuisine can be adopted. It would be a perfect setting for a fairytale wedding. Traditionally, wedding ceremonies in Australia end with the couple exchanging rings – a circular ring with no end and no beginning symbolizing an everlasting relationship – and the traditional wedding kiss to seal the pact. In many south Asian weddings, the pair exchanges rings and kiss – just like its Australian counterpart. Get to know some local customs and adopt them in the event. Even as a mark of respect for the place.
Despite traditions varying across ethnicity, language and region, traditional weddings are structured in similar manner with pre and post wedding ceremonies. If the wedding is taking place abroad, what more fun if some local flavor of that country is also added. It will only make the entire event memorable. For example in countries like America and Australia where many S E Asians live, work and marry there are few local options for the bridal couple to adopt. Use of bride maidens, use of gown instead of ethnic apparel and cuisine can be adopted. It would be a perfect setting for a fairytale wedding. Traditionally, wedding ceremonies in Australia end with the couple exchanging rings – a circular ring with no end and no beginning symbolizing an everlasting relationship – and the traditional wedding kiss to seal the pact. In many south Asian weddings, the pair exchanges rings and kiss – just like its Australian counterpart. Get to know some local customs and adopt them in the event. Even as a mark of respect for the place.
Dating before marriage/ spending weekend holidays
Dating is normal between couples. How far can one go before marriage? Should a couple spend weekends together before their marriage? Some cultures are no open even if the couple is broadminded. Where does one cross the line? These are some questions still haunting real life couples who wish to maintain the sanctity of their relationship. In some Asian customs there are traditional hazards before the couple can become intimate at any level. Some families are known to be orthodox in such matters. With changing times some traditional hazards can be done away with. It has become important for a to-be bride and bridegroom to meet and spend quality time together to at least build a bond for an upcoming relationship together. Every little action impacts one in a big way and dating clear the decks.
Compatibility is the key to a successful marriage and dating an either strengthen or collapse a relationship. A relationship can end while dating itself if the couple does not bond. Meeting each other on weekends, going out for lunches, dinners and movies opens up a whole new world of opportunities and responsibilities that we do not realize. Most societies view marriage as a lifelong commitment with spiritual, moral, familial, financial and social roles – the adage of “two become one”. Marriage has always meant to take a relationship to its highest level possible and that is why the average dating length before marriage must be considered. That is the key to a good life eventually.
Compatibility is the key to a successful marriage and dating an either strengthen or collapse a relationship. A relationship can end while dating itself if the couple does not bond. Meeting each other on weekends, going out for lunches, dinners and movies opens up a whole new world of opportunities and responsibilities that we do not realize. Most societies view marriage as a lifelong commitment with spiritual, moral, familial, financial and social roles – the adage of “two become one”. Marriage has always meant to take a relationship to its highest level possible and that is why the average dating length before marriage must be considered. That is the key to a good life eventually.
Avoid Getting Duped in the Marriage Market
Many girls and boys approach matrimony with blinkers on. There is nothing like “it will never happen to me”. Anything can happen, anytime. We just need to keep our eyes and ears open and no one dare to fool us. Nevertheless, marriage fraud has disheartened, saddened, depressed and dejected many. How can one avoid getting duped in the marriage market? Marriage market being huge comes with its own set of deceptions and cons for some and a plain simple bad luck for many. Many men and women, looking for love, life and stability fall into the web of crimes adorning this pious institution – like marrying for an immigration or permanent citizenship of another country, marrying for money and sometimes marrying just under pressure.
The truth is that no upright man or a woman would ever exploit his/her partner – emotionally or mentally. Avoiding these things before the marriage is fixed would be the first step to avoid getting duped. Getting the marriage registered under legal laws of the country is very importance. It can assure justice if any untoward thing happens later. Conduct a background search of a potential partner, through internet, detectives, relatives or friends. Do not be blinded by high-profile suitors as they can just be part of a “sweetheart scam”. Lastly, if you have a slightest of hint of a scam happening, just be firm and fizzle out with a threat of a police action. Learn to breakup. This isn’t just about the heart. It’s about being smart.
The truth is that no upright man or a woman would ever exploit his/her partner – emotionally or mentally. Avoiding these things before the marriage is fixed would be the first step to avoid getting duped. Getting the marriage registered under legal laws of the country is very importance. It can assure justice if any untoward thing happens later. Conduct a background search of a potential partner, through internet, detectives, relatives or friends. Do not be blinded by high-profile suitors as they can just be part of a “sweetheart scam”. Lastly, if you have a slightest of hint of a scam happening, just be firm and fizzle out with a threat of a police action. Learn to breakup. This isn’t just about the heart. It’s about being smart.
When A Woman Proposes… Marriage to a Man!
No mathematics work when it comes to love. Love knows no boundaries, no rules and regulations. So girls, the days of “ladies in waiting” are over when it comes to proposing marriage to their men. For centuries, proposing was a male bastion. Now women are getting down on the knees and popping the question. This may raise a few eyebrows, but today’ woman knows exactly what she wants in life — and gets it too! Women were actually given the right to propose marriage to a man in 1228!
This “role reversal” trend is not only evident in the number of women proposing, but in society’s willingness to accept this shift too. A natural and a healthy situation is when the couple is really in tune with each other and they have had wonderful times in the past, so that it can be progressed to the future. Psychologists say a woman should be in control of the situation when deciding on taking this step, with honesty being of prime importance. “Why do I want to marry this person?” And, “How do I perceive this relationship?” should be at the top list in her mind. Honesty should direct her behavior and her next step.
In most south Asian societies, which are very conventional and traditional, a woman, however successful in life, is always expected to be a meek bride. So taking such a step involves a lot of responsibilities of a woman’s action and repercussions. So be ready to face them.
This “role reversal” trend is not only evident in the number of women proposing, but in society’s willingness to accept this shift too. A natural and a healthy situation is when the couple is really in tune with each other and they have had wonderful times in the past, so that it can be progressed to the future. Psychologists say a woman should be in control of the situation when deciding on taking this step, with honesty being of prime importance. “Why do I want to marry this person?” And, “How do I perceive this relationship?” should be at the top list in her mind. Honesty should direct her behavior and her next step.
In most south Asian societies, which are very conventional and traditional, a woman, however successful in life, is always expected to be a meek bride. So taking such a step involves a lot of responsibilities of a woman’s action and repercussions. So be ready to face them.
Acquire the Art of Impressing Your In-Laws
The word “in-laws” is as horrific as a slasher movie. Meeting “mom and dad” is not easy…especially in orthodox South-Asian culture, where the bride needs to be as coy with them as on her wedding day. Pleasing this “beastly” group is the most important task and being the newest member it is you have to make a place in everyone’s heart. But the key to door is to just being warm and welcoming. Cook for them, invite them for dinner, clean the house, and show your interior designing skills and just open up with a nice, flairy conversation. Just laugh, have fun, share experiences and get to know them intimately, as they are the new family.
Who doesn’t get delighted receiving a call or a gift on birthdays and anniversaries, just do that. Drop by for visits, take them for shopping, and most important of all – be sensitive to their needs and wants. Just, reflect how much they mean to you and that would be an assurance enough for them as you being the perfect mate for their beloved son.
Impressing your in-laws is an important accomplishment. You already have the heart of their son, but being accepted entirely in the family matters, especially if you are marrying in the family. Just remember it is about reading their expectations coupled with your presence of mind. Since a job well begun is half done, getting them on your side initially will go a long way towards a smooth journey in life.
Who doesn’t get delighted receiving a call or a gift on birthdays and anniversaries, just do that. Drop by for visits, take them for shopping, and most important of all – be sensitive to their needs and wants. Just, reflect how much they mean to you and that would be an assurance enough for them as you being the perfect mate for their beloved son.
Impressing your in-laws is an important accomplishment. You already have the heart of their son, but being accepted entirely in the family matters, especially if you are marrying in the family. Just remember it is about reading their expectations coupled with your presence of mind. Since a job well begun is half done, getting them on your side initially will go a long way towards a smooth journey in life.
Dispelling Some Wedding Superstitions & Myths
Marriages are a reason to make merry. But it’s also a time when one is filled with apprehensions, tensions, trauma stress. As a result, this milestone of life has plenty superstitions to cross. We humans always seek to understand our surroundings and interpret life by that understanding. Superstition is just one more method of understanding life even though unfounded at times.
There are many wedding myths and superstitions that are passed through generations. Some are for good luck while others are considered bad, so without factual basis, they are agreed upon by generations. Many traditions believe in the bridal couple not meeting 4-5 days prior to the wedding, but with increasing trend of cross-cultural and love-marriages today, one wonders, is that possible and by breaking this tradition, does the couples not live happily after? Another set of myths preach a bride will not want to see a hare, pig, monk or nun on her way to her wedding as these are all unlucky or suggest a barren marriage, but logically if you think about it – what if she visions all of them? Will she be actually doomed? There are also few actions that are encouraged, like a bride taking a quick look at her reflection in a mirror just before leaving home for the wedding ceremony will bring her good luck. Which bride wouldn’t do that? Even though these superstitions and myths have no scientific basis, it never hurts to keep them in mind, just in case…luck dries up suddenly.
There are many wedding myths and superstitions that are passed through generations. Some are for good luck while others are considered bad, so without factual basis, they are agreed upon by generations. Many traditions believe in the bridal couple not meeting 4-5 days prior to the wedding, but with increasing trend of cross-cultural and love-marriages today, one wonders, is that possible and by breaking this tradition, does the couples not live happily after? Another set of myths preach a bride will not want to see a hare, pig, monk or nun on her way to her wedding as these are all unlucky or suggest a barren marriage, but logically if you think about it – what if she visions all of them? Will she be actually doomed? There are also few actions that are encouraged, like a bride taking a quick look at her reflection in a mirror just before leaving home for the wedding ceremony will bring her good luck. Which bride wouldn’t do that? Even though these superstitions and myths have no scientific basis, it never hurts to keep them in mind, just in case…luck dries up suddenly.
Using websites as wedding cards
Very recently a South Asian couple married and settled in US. The groom is a systems analyst in a software corp and the bride was a software engineer. So it was natural for them to use their skills to make their wedding memorable for their guests. They decided to make a website that served as a wedding card! Makig the most of their technology skills the website had regular sections like About Us-that described the bride and groom and their personalities, work, hobbies likes and dislikes with graphics and pictures. Parents- had important information about how the two families had blessed the couple for matrimony. A brief description of the parents and their pictures were given. Pre-wedding ceremonies- this gave information about all the dates and ceremonies and rituals attached. It mentioned the venue with the maps for the guests to come. It came with an email for RSVP. Wedding date and ceremonies- it mentioned the main date, programs and timings.
Couples have become more creative when it comes to getting married and using this technology has made it easier to marry. Wedding planners offer a bouquet of services for creating wedding websites. It is not an overstatement to say that a wedding is an event of a lifetime. So, to set the right tone for a wedding, an exclusive, well-designed and coordinated stationary works wonders-from informing guests about the venue, and event calendar to sharing pictures, all is handled deftly. Designers present elaborate themes, offer risk-free guarantees and samples.
Couples have become more creative when it comes to getting married and using this technology has made it easier to marry. Wedding planners offer a bouquet of services for creating wedding websites. It is not an overstatement to say that a wedding is an event of a lifetime. So, to set the right tone for a wedding, an exclusive, well-designed and coordinated stationary works wonders-from informing guests about the venue, and event calendar to sharing pictures, all is handled deftly. Designers present elaborate themes, offer risk-free guarantees and samples.
Making most of traditions rather than running away
Different cultures have diverse wedding traditions. Some are long winding and mandatory. In some cultures in the Asian sub-continent if certain important traditional rituals are not conducted the marriage has no meaning. Centuries old beliefs in cumbersome rituals make some couples opt for legal or registered marriages- Which are fine except that the tradition should not be sidelined. Rather than skipping them, it is better to make the most of the traditions, rather than running away from them. When ancient traditions are followed, it is a sign of respect to the ancestors and the rituals they have developed. In the Asian countries when a couple gets married, it is a marriage of not just two individuals but two families. For example it is mandatory for the girl’s mother to give a gift of gold jewelry to the boy’s mother. It is necessary for a father to give away the daughter in marriage during the ceremony officiated by a priest in front of family, relatives and friends. It is so much in contrast to couples in love who elope and marry against parental wishes.
The need to wear traditional and ethnic clothes is also important. It strengthens the belief in the community. No matter how modern we have become traditions like exchange of rings for engagement and wedding make sense. They are lifelong symbols and need to be done in presence of elders and friends. It is an occasion for celebration, so why not enjoy the tradition that goes with it.
The need to wear traditional and ethnic clothes is also important. It strengthens the belief in the community. No matter how modern we have become traditions like exchange of rings for engagement and wedding make sense. They are lifelong symbols and need to be done in presence of elders and friends. It is an occasion for celebration, so why not enjoy the tradition that goes with it.
Keep Moma outta this wedding!
Emotional quotients run high just before the wedding. Most youngsters feel now that they are adults; they need to be in charge and not their parents. Sometimes mothers tend to control the entire show and that’s where the trouble begins. Mothers prefer to organize things the way they would have done in their times, since they were never given the chance. But today’s independent generation can hardly tolerate diktats-most of all their own wedding. How can one manage the show without head butting especially with dominating mothers and mothers-in-laws?
The key to happy pre-event discussions lies in first announcing who will be in charge of what job connected to the wedding. Once the departments are allocated, insist that no one interferes. Mothers generally tend to head butt with daughters in choice of bridal trousseau, jewelry, guest list and giving gifts. Most girls are unable to keep the mother away and usually are in tears pouring their heart out to the best friend. It happens often when mothers even interfere with the guest list. The ideal way would be to talk but a mother can emotionally blackmail too. Even if you are not paying for the wedding, remember it is your wedding and try to pacify mom without breaking her heart. She will already be heart broken when you leave the nest. Balance the situation by letting her go one way and you the other way. Gently ask her to treat you as an adult, now that you are getting married.
The key to happy pre-event discussions lies in first announcing who will be in charge of what job connected to the wedding. Once the departments are allocated, insist that no one interferes. Mothers generally tend to head butt with daughters in choice of bridal trousseau, jewelry, guest list and giving gifts. Most girls are unable to keep the mother away and usually are in tears pouring their heart out to the best friend. It happens often when mothers even interfere with the guest list. The ideal way would be to talk but a mother can emotionally blackmail too. Even if you are not paying for the wedding, remember it is your wedding and try to pacify mom without breaking her heart. She will already be heart broken when you leave the nest. Balance the situation by letting her go one way and you the other way. Gently ask her to treat you as an adult, now that you are getting married.
Don’t work on day of your wedding-Don’t get late to the venue
Are you a workaholic and that’s why the girl agreed to marry you in the first place? But don’t get carried away by this quality on the wedding day especially if you are a busy doctor, therapist or in any service oriented job that requires you to be on your toes. Keeping a date waiting in the restaurant is one thing, but not appearing at the wedding venue on time is almost sacrilegious. No one would tolerate it. When a wedding is announced, many people set their dates free from their busy schedules to bless the couple. It is only being considerate when you set the work calendar.
How can this work? Very easily, if there is inclination, time can be sorted out. A wedding is announced well in advance. Cards are also sent for the guests mark their calendars. Ensure that at least ten days before the wedding you are off work. This gives ample time to organize oneself. Clothes trials, important ceremonies, shopping for gifts and jewelry, checking out the venues and catering are important. Since it is your wedding it is essential to take charge. It is important to get into the wedding mood and interact with the people who are helping to make this wedding happen. It is important to find time to get a good massage, beauty treatments to ensure you look your very best. Find also some time for some solitude and meditation. It is a big step in life that needs deep thought.
How can this work? Very easily, if there is inclination, time can be sorted out. A wedding is announced well in advance. Cards are also sent for the guests mark their calendars. Ensure that at least ten days before the wedding you are off work. This gives ample time to organize oneself. Clothes trials, important ceremonies, shopping for gifts and jewelry, checking out the venues and catering are important. Since it is your wedding it is essential to take charge. It is important to get into the wedding mood and interact with the people who are helping to make this wedding happen. It is important to find time to get a good massage, beauty treatments to ensure you look your very best. Find also some time for some solitude and meditation. It is a big step in life that needs deep thought.
Dad- to- Son chats before marriage
In the marriage melee most dads get forgotten. Sons are supposed to be mature and need no advice. But the truth is that before the wedding the son is as nervous as he was when he was giving his final exam. Except that he does not express his fears. Times have changed and men are more expressive than their older generations. They have also learnt to cope with the fears. While it is easier for the girls to have a good cry and get over with the overwhelming emotions the boys find it tough. But now dads are open to have chats with their sons. Most sons do ask their dads if the choice of girl is right at the time of engagement. So when the wedding date comes closer, the jitters get louder. If the father had reluctantly approved the bride, it is all the more critical for the dad-to son chat to take place. This seems to be the last chance to reconcile and speak about the fears.
Sons may be close to their mothers, but there a certain things that they prefer discussing with their dads or best friends. Fears range from various topics like sex, behavior on the first night, expectations from the bride and dealing with a difficult mother. If the son will still be living with his parents, he will have to discuss the protocol that needs to be adhered once the new bride enters the home. A lively chat will reduce the burden of the heart.
Sons may be close to their mothers, but there a certain things that they prefer discussing with their dads or best friends. Fears range from various topics like sex, behavior on the first night, expectations from the bride and dealing with a difficult mother. If the son will still be living with his parents, he will have to discuss the protocol that needs to be adhered once the new bride enters the home. A lively chat will reduce the burden of the heart.
Bride’s comfort-Groom’s Gain!
You’ve just got married and bought the bride home. As the honey moon dust settles in matrimony, it’s time to take a reality check. A bride is nervous when she steps in the foyer of her husband’s home for the first time. Even if she has socialized with her in-laws and other relatives, she needs initial comfort level. She has left her maternal place forever where she led a sequestered life. Now she will be the focus of attention in her new home. It is natural for the husband and his family to make her feel that she has come to another secure home.
The husband’s younger sister could be of great help to the newly wed bride. If they are in similar age group the bride learns to adjust easier. If a mother-in-law is equally amiable, the shy bride will be relieved. In Asian families where the joint family system still prevails, a bride looks upon her husband and one younger member in the family to help with the adjusting. If there is no sister, and only a brother, he could be of help everywhere except, perhaps the kitchen. A bride is likely to feel comfortable when her cooking skills are recognized by the new family. When the bride also adjusts to the new ways and adapts herself she is assured of having a great married life. After all, it takes two to tango and all the adjustment cannot come only from the family but also from the bride.
The husband’s younger sister could be of great help to the newly wed bride. If they are in similar age group the bride learns to adjust easier. If a mother-in-law is equally amiable, the shy bride will be relieved. In Asian families where the joint family system still prevails, a bride looks upon her husband and one younger member in the family to help with the adjusting. If there is no sister, and only a brother, he could be of help everywhere except, perhaps the kitchen. A bride is likely to feel comfortable when her cooking skills are recognized by the new family. When the bride also adjusts to the new ways and adapts herself she is assured of having a great married life. After all, it takes two to tango and all the adjustment cannot come only from the family but also from the bride.
Dream choice or parental choice- coping up
t’s the day and age when couples have to live by themselves. Whether it is the dream choice or parental choice, coping with the partners can be smooth if one is able to understand and give space. There is no set formula that works. Dream choices can also become sour and a parental choice can be a big marital surprise. For working couples
It’s nice that both of you are bringing home the bacon, bread and butter. But does the professional life leaves any gap for personal fulfillment. If one of you works late, it is hardly rocket science to learn what will happen eventually. A married life is like a plant that needs to be nurtured. It needs to be watered with love and time for each other-Especially if you wish to have children. There should be no reason that work pressures should leave you in a situation like-my way or the highway!
When one is house-bound
With competition, one finds that women executives travel, leaving the hubby to be house-bound. This is hardly an issue to sweat about or have an ego trip. Being married is also about equal rights, honey. If you are a man and dreamt of a bride serving tea in the bedroom, then wake up. It’s time to either switch jobs or go along with the bride. Having an ego can be disastrous. Then it does not matter if you have married out of your own choice or parents’ will. The ego can destroy happiness.
It’s nice that both of you are bringing home the bacon, bread and butter. But does the professional life leaves any gap for personal fulfillment. If one of you works late, it is hardly rocket science to learn what will happen eventually. A married life is like a plant that needs to be nurtured. It needs to be watered with love and time for each other-Especially if you wish to have children. There should be no reason that work pressures should leave you in a situation like-my way or the highway!
When one is house-bound
With competition, one finds that women executives travel, leaving the hubby to be house-bound. This is hardly an issue to sweat about or have an ego trip. Being married is also about equal rights, honey. If you are a man and dreamt of a bride serving tea in the bedroom, then wake up. It’s time to either switch jobs or go along with the bride. Having an ego can be disastrous. Then it does not matter if you have married out of your own choice or parents’ will. The ego can destroy happiness.
First time or second time- different rules
We all marry the first time thinking it is the only and last time we have found our soul mate. But we all don’t remain happily married thereafter. Some marriages run tough luck when they fail, one of the couple dies, or there is separation. Yes, sometimes love is star crossed. While first time marriages are all about knowing one another and then adjusting for lifetimes, for second timers it could be the other way round with a few children thrown in.
Yet, there are rules that one has to abide by. While in first time marriages one can get by making innocent mistakes and yet keeping the Knot intact, second time around the rules are tougher. Let’s concentrate on the latter, as few understand the rules of a second happy marriage. Never bring in the ‘ex’, if a divorce has taken place. By no means, take the name of the previous spouse as the hurt can be more painful and open wounds. Once you have decided to marry for the second time, be clear about the position of the children. No matter what their age is, all children are sensitive to sharing their parents with someone else. And never remind your second spouse about the first one if a death has occurred. Consideration for privacy is of utmost importance for the relationship to grow second time around. Stay away from hurtful friends, relatives and family or do not mean success of the relationship- watch romance bring happiness once again.
Yet, there are rules that one has to abide by. While in first time marriages one can get by making innocent mistakes and yet keeping the Knot intact, second time around the rules are tougher. Let’s concentrate on the latter, as few understand the rules of a second happy marriage. Never bring in the ‘ex’, if a divorce has taken place. By no means, take the name of the previous spouse as the hurt can be more painful and open wounds. Once you have decided to marry for the second time, be clear about the position of the children. No matter what their age is, all children are sensitive to sharing their parents with someone else. And never remind your second spouse about the first one if a death has occurred. Consideration for privacy is of utmost importance for the relationship to grow second time around. Stay away from hurtful friends, relatives and family or do not mean success of the relationship- watch romance bring happiness once again.
Wedding fashion for the groom
When the marriage bug hits the bachelor boys then it is essential to bring them to get them to do shopping-something which new age guys just love. Most grooms stand awkward in their traditional attire as they do not wear them on a daily basis. But they are happy to don the western trousers and shirt and blazers with easy at receptions. But wedding is once in a life time occasion. It makes sense to dress u the way tradition demand. With Asian films depicting grooms in catchy styles and colors, the real grooms are no longer shy.
Some families marry in style. Parents accept that their son carries the heritage that the ancestors began. This also includes wearing the special clothes so that it becomes a lucky charm for the rest of his married life. Maintain proper fashion etiquette to be at ease. If you are not used to wearing the traditional ‘wedding uniform’, try to do so in the rituals of the last few days that run up to the wedding. Impress the in-laws by accepting their traditions too. Honoring traditions is about respecting values. A Hindu groom accepted a silver sword from his Muslim father-in-law. The sword has a place of pride in his home. Needles to say the couple is still in love and happily married ten years later!
The only advice we can give to the shy groom is-that the fashion he chooses for the weeding day should be dictated by the ruling weather Gods.
Some families marry in style. Parents accept that their son carries the heritage that the ancestors began. This also includes wearing the special clothes so that it becomes a lucky charm for the rest of his married life. Maintain proper fashion etiquette to be at ease. If you are not used to wearing the traditional ‘wedding uniform’, try to do so in the rituals of the last few days that run up to the wedding. Impress the in-laws by accepting their traditions too. Honoring traditions is about respecting values. A Hindu groom accepted a silver sword from his Muslim father-in-law. The sword has a place of pride in his home. Needles to say the couple is still in love and happily married ten years later!
The only advice we can give to the shy groom is-that the fashion he chooses for the weeding day should be dictated by the ruling weather Gods.
Dealing with family and need for knowing names of relatives of the bride.
Like most proud Asians most of us know that when we marry, it is not only the bride but also the family, her relatives and close friends. One is introduced to a long list of well wishers on the reception day. It is hard to remember all of them. But the trick lies in knowing some of the important names that matter. Some elderly aunt, important distant cousin, grandparent who was crucial in bringing up the ‘baby’ to this D-Day! Well, it can be a hard task knowing all names. In turn, it is equally compelling for the bride to know all the members in her husband’s family.
The last memorization of names would have been way back in school, for history-And now, the relatives and family. A few bridal couples have a way out of tricky situations. Both of them can have an opportunity to speak about these important relatives before they marry. Some can be met before hand. This helps in recalling the names on the wedding day. Remembering someone in the crowd can earn respect. In fact, not addressing an elder with the proper name can be the beginning of a relationship on a wrong footing, especially if the person is close to the bride. Some families do have uncommon names. The very fact that they are uncommon they can be remembered with ease or cause embarrassment at times! If it is very difficult to remember then get their pet names which can be recalled with ease.
The last memorization of names would have been way back in school, for history-And now, the relatives and family. A few bridal couples have a way out of tricky situations. Both of them can have an opportunity to speak about these important relatives before they marry. Some can be met before hand. This helps in recalling the names on the wedding day. Remembering someone in the crowd can earn respect. In fact, not addressing an elder with the proper name can be the beginning of a relationship on a wrong footing, especially if the person is close to the bride. Some families do have uncommon names. The very fact that they are uncommon they can be remembered with ease or cause embarrassment at times! If it is very difficult to remember then get their pet names which can be recalled with ease.
When is the right time to get the parents involved?
In the content of Asian marriages, families play a very important role, from putting up the profile to finalizing the last minute details of the marriage. If you go by the rule book, online dating or online matrimonial alliances are a new concept that has fast caught up with the changing times.
Most online matchmaking services provider including Desi matchmaking services and NRI Matrimonials give it a traditional touch. They cater not only to the young professionals like you, but help to facilitate the older family members in the process of finalizing the marriage.
If you have already short listed a few prospective grooms or brides, the role of the parents or older family members’ starts. At your own personal levels, you must have evaluated your compatibility, likes and dislikes, consent on most factors before you ask your parents or family members to step in. Your parents would help judge the right person for your marriage in most cases.
They evaluate taking into factors such as family background- social standing and wealth, horoscope compatibility, education qualifications, personal appearances, mother tongue, personal ethics, religion and family values. In many Indian Matrimonial and even Pakistani Matrimonial profiles, it is the parents who respond to the queries instead of the young boys and girls who are to be married.
If you are one of those that left the decision of finding the right match for you in the hand of your parents, then they must have played a role right from posting the profile to answering and short listing the eligible boy or girl.
But if you have already short listed or found someone who seems to be the compatible person to share your life, the role of your parents or older family members’ starts. They would like to set up a meeting with the boy or girl, meet the parents and if all goes well, finalize the marriage.
Most online matchmaking services provider including Desi matchmaking services and NRI Matrimonials give it a traditional touch. They cater not only to the young professionals like you, but help to facilitate the older family members in the process of finalizing the marriage.
If you have already short listed a few prospective grooms or brides, the role of the parents or older family members’ starts. At your own personal levels, you must have evaluated your compatibility, likes and dislikes, consent on most factors before you ask your parents or family members to step in. Your parents would help judge the right person for your marriage in most cases.
They evaluate taking into factors such as family background- social standing and wealth, horoscope compatibility, education qualifications, personal appearances, mother tongue, personal ethics, religion and family values. In many Indian Matrimonial and even Pakistani Matrimonial profiles, it is the parents who respond to the queries instead of the young boys and girls who are to be married.
If you are one of those that left the decision of finding the right match for you in the hand of your parents, then they must have played a role right from posting the profile to answering and short listing the eligible boy or girl.
But if you have already short listed or found someone who seems to be the compatible person to share your life, the role of your parents or older family members’ starts. They would like to set up a meeting with the boy or girl, meet the parents and if all goes well, finalize the marriage.
Dating Someone That Does Not Share Your Indian Heritage
It is natural to think that you would only date and marry someone who shared your Indian heritage, but it is also possible that you love, date and marry someone who does not share your Indian heritage. In such a situation, several problems may arise from such matrimonial relationships.
Both the cultures of the people in the matrimonial relationship may clash in the future after you spend some time with each other. The cultural differences may create some problems between you two or your families. Anyone or both your families may not accept the relationship. In such Indian matrimonial situations, you need to understand that an open talk with your matrimonial partner or families can help in a great way. You need to talk about the possible matrimonial problems that may arise due to the different backgrounds of both the partners.
You may have found your date through online match making offered by Indian matrimonial sites. This is quite possible to find someone through the online match making, who does not share Indian heritage. The parents always expect that in case of matrimonial process, you always date and marry someone who shares Indian heritage. In such case, they will need some time to accept your matrimonial partner found through online matchmaking, who does not share the Indian heritage. Your partner also should understand that there may be the need of some more time in the relationship. Such matrimonial issues are not very easy to deal with and many couples falter here.
You need to approach the problems before they become too serious. When you decide to tell your family about the person you’re dating, who does not share the Indian heritage, try to approach the issue in the most positive way. Let them understand that your partner respect Indian heritage and brings happiness and peace to your life. Let your family know about all the great things about your partner. Many families today accept such dating and matrimonial relationships, which is a great thing for the couple.
Both the cultures of the people in the matrimonial relationship may clash in the future after you spend some time with each other. The cultural differences may create some problems between you two or your families. Anyone or both your families may not accept the relationship. In such Indian matrimonial situations, you need to understand that an open talk with your matrimonial partner or families can help in a great way. You need to talk about the possible matrimonial problems that may arise due to the different backgrounds of both the partners.
You may have found your date through online match making offered by Indian matrimonial sites. This is quite possible to find someone through the online match making, who does not share Indian heritage. The parents always expect that in case of matrimonial process, you always date and marry someone who shares Indian heritage. In such case, they will need some time to accept your matrimonial partner found through online matchmaking, who does not share the Indian heritage. Your partner also should understand that there may be the need of some more time in the relationship. Such matrimonial issues are not very easy to deal with and many couples falter here.
You need to approach the problems before they become too serious. When you decide to tell your family about the person you’re dating, who does not share the Indian heritage, try to approach the issue in the most positive way. Let them understand that your partner respect Indian heritage and brings happiness and peace to your life. Let your family know about all the great things about your partner. Many families today accept such dating and matrimonial relationships, which is a great thing for the couple.
Find somebody who believes in commitment
While looking for your matrimonial partner, you need to find someone who believes in commitment, if you want a long lasting relationship. In many dating relationships one or more partner may not be interested in commitment. While you need a committed partner in the matrimonial relationship, but your partner may not be interested in committing anything. There may be many reasons of such lack of commitment, but if you are serious about the relationship, then you need to find someone who is serious about commitment.
You should test the commitment of your partner. Testing the commitment of your partner will ensure that you are taking matrimonial interest in someone who is worth it. Matrimonial relationship depends a lot on the commitment from both the partners. We did the commitment to matrimonial relationship can stay alive for a long time.
Commitment can be tested with few questions and the behavior of your partner. It may be little difficult in case of partners whom you found through matrimony sites or online match making services. But still you will be able to find out the commitment level of your matrimonial partner by asking a few questions which will bring out the level of commitment. Behavior of your matrimonial partner is a clear indication of his commitment levels. You need to be watchful while dealing with a new partner whom you recently met.
Check all the prospective matrimonial partners with a commitment level scale. You should be considering only those prospective partners who score high in the commitment level test. Always avoid people who show poor or lack of commitment. Check out the commitment level of your partner now and avoid heartbreak.
You should test the commitment of your partner. Testing the commitment of your partner will ensure that you are taking matrimonial interest in someone who is worth it. Matrimonial relationship depends a lot on the commitment from both the partners. We did the commitment to matrimonial relationship can stay alive for a long time.
Commitment can be tested with few questions and the behavior of your partner. It may be little difficult in case of partners whom you found through matrimony sites or online match making services. But still you will be able to find out the commitment level of your matrimonial partner by asking a few questions which will bring out the level of commitment. Behavior of your matrimonial partner is a clear indication of his commitment levels. You need to be watchful while dealing with a new partner whom you recently met.
Check all the prospective matrimonial partners with a commitment level scale. You should be considering only those prospective partners who score high in the commitment level test. Always avoid people who show poor or lack of commitment. Check out the commitment level of your partner now and avoid heartbreak.
How to find somebody who respects you for what you are
As a person you have some characteristics. You generally like the way you are. If you don’t like then you try to change and bring in new characteristics. You want people to respect you for what you are. It is especially true with your partner for dating or matrimonial relationship.
You often use the matrimonial service of a matchmaking service provider or matchmaking agency to find a partner for yourself. You may also use a matrimony site to find out partner for dating or matrimonial relationship.
If your partner respects you for what you are, then he will accept you as you are. He will not try to change you, your appearance, your dressing, your behavior, your way of thinking etc. However, you should not mistake his good intention of changing your bad habits or something bad about you just to make you a better person. When you know the distinction between these two, you’ll be able to know whether the partner you have chosen using the services of a matrimony site, a matchmaking agency or a matchmaking services provider.
You need to look for the warning signs that will tell you whether your partner respects you or not. When and how do you know that your partner does not respect you for what you are? There are some signs which will tell you about it-
Check if your partner forces you, ignores you, threatens you, rejects you, judges you, does not listen to you, lies to you, does not care about your opinion and does not care about your emotions then be sure that he does not respect you as a person.
There are many other warning signs which will be able to tell you whether you are being respected by your partner for what you are. If the imposes things on you, intrudes upon, laughs at you, does not care for you, underestimates you, mocks you, takes you lightly, does not care about your needs then understand that your partner doesn’t respect you and is not the right person to choose.
You often use the matrimonial service of a matchmaking service provider or matchmaking agency to find a partner for yourself. You may also use a matrimony site to find out partner for dating or matrimonial relationship.
If your partner respects you for what you are, then he will accept you as you are. He will not try to change you, your appearance, your dressing, your behavior, your way of thinking etc. However, you should not mistake his good intention of changing your bad habits or something bad about you just to make you a better person. When you know the distinction between these two, you’ll be able to know whether the partner you have chosen using the services of a matrimony site, a matchmaking agency or a matchmaking services provider.
You need to look for the warning signs that will tell you whether your partner respects you or not. When and how do you know that your partner does not respect you for what you are? There are some signs which will tell you about it-
Check if your partner forces you, ignores you, threatens you, rejects you, judges you, does not listen to you, lies to you, does not care about your opinion and does not care about your emotions then be sure that he does not respect you as a person.
There are many other warning signs which will be able to tell you whether you are being respected by your partner for what you are. If the imposes things on you, intrudes upon, laughs at you, does not care for you, underestimates you, mocks you, takes you lightly, does not care about your needs then understand that your partner doesn’t respect you and is not the right person to choose.
How to find somebody who will pamper you
Finding someone who will pamper you may not be an easy job if you do not know why people pamper others and how to get someone pamper you. Pampering is what a woman always want from her partner, be it a matrimonial partner or a dating partner. However it doesn’t mean that men do not like being pampered.
Matrimonial sites and online match making services can help you to find a matrimonial partner for yourself. But you need to know whether your partner will pamper you are not. Whether it is a Hindu matrimonial, Muslim matrimonial or any other matrimonial service, you will need to take care to find out the right matrimonial partner who will pamper you.
Your matrimonial partner will pamper you, if you look attractive and confident and be the fantasy partner for him/her. You need to look good, dress well, exude confidence to get your partner pamper you. Good communication skills and intelligence will force him to pamper you and love you. If your matrimonial partner found through online match making does not pamper you even after you have all these qualities, then he’s not the right matrimonial partner for you.
If you support your matrimonial partner whom you’ve found through online match making or matchmaking services, pamper, continuously show that you love, care for and think about your partner but your partner do not reciprocate, then be sure that your partner is not one who will pamper you. So you should avoid having any matrimonial or dating relationship with him/her.
Few other characteristics of your matrimonial partner will ensure whether your partner is the one who will pamper you- your partner should try to seduce you, pay attention to you and your thoughts and remember you many times a day. If these signs are there, then be sure that your matrimonial partner is the right person who will keep you pampered lifelong.
Matrimonial sites and online match making services can help you to find a matrimonial partner for yourself. But you need to know whether your partner will pamper you are not. Whether it is a Hindu matrimonial, Muslim matrimonial or any other matrimonial service, you will need to take care to find out the right matrimonial partner who will pamper you.
Your matrimonial partner will pamper you, if you look attractive and confident and be the fantasy partner for him/her. You need to look good, dress well, exude confidence to get your partner pamper you. Good communication skills and intelligence will force him to pamper you and love you. If your matrimonial partner found through online match making does not pamper you even after you have all these qualities, then he’s not the right matrimonial partner for you.
If you support your matrimonial partner whom you’ve found through online match making or matchmaking services, pamper, continuously show that you love, care for and think about your partner but your partner do not reciprocate, then be sure that your partner is not one who will pamper you. So you should avoid having any matrimonial or dating relationship with him/her.
Few other characteristics of your matrimonial partner will ensure whether your partner is the one who will pamper you- your partner should try to seduce you, pay attention to you and your thoughts and remember you many times a day. If these signs are there, then be sure that your matrimonial partner is the right person who will keep you pampered lifelong.
How to find somebody you can rely on
Today you can use matrimonial services offered by a matchmaking agency or a matrimony site to find someone within a very short time. Even though the speed of finding someone as your partner has increased, but still you need to make sure that you choose the right person for yourself.
You have a partner available for dating or matrimonial relation, but there is a need to ask a question to yourself? Can you rely on your partner? If the answer is yes, then you are really a lucky person. But if the answer is no, then there may be problems in future.
How do you find out someone as your partner whom you can rely on? For that, you have to take little pain to go through the profile available in the matrimony site or at the matchmaking agency that provides matrimonial services. You may also need to meet several people before you choose someone for a dating or matrimonial relationship.
There are quite a few characteristics or virtues of a person you can rely on. Reliable people have several distinguishable characteristics. You need to look for these special characteristics in relation to you and your partner.
A reliable person will always have a strong character. He will show the signs of a good character during good as well as bad times. His characters will be prominent in his behavior and thinking and can be assessed easily. If your partner is reliable, then you will find him trustworthy. If you can trust them then he’s a reliable person. Trustworthiness can be ascertained examining his behavior.
You should also look for other characteristics of a reliable person. A reliable matrimonial is one who does not lie to you, cares for you, cares for your needs, cares for your emotions. He also does not try to impose anything or overshadow you, does not laugh at you, does not take you lightly and thinks you as equal. Make sure your matrimonial partner has these characteristics because you want someone you can rely on as your life partner.
You have a partner available for dating or matrimonial relation, but there is a need to ask a question to yourself? Can you rely on your partner? If the answer is yes, then you are really a lucky person. But if the answer is no, then there may be problems in future.
How do you find out someone as your partner whom you can rely on? For that, you have to take little pain to go through the profile available in the matrimony site or at the matchmaking agency that provides matrimonial services. You may also need to meet several people before you choose someone for a dating or matrimonial relationship.
There are quite a few characteristics or virtues of a person you can rely on. Reliable people have several distinguishable characteristics. You need to look for these special characteristics in relation to you and your partner.
A reliable person will always have a strong character. He will show the signs of a good character during good as well as bad times. His characters will be prominent in his behavior and thinking and can be assessed easily. If your partner is reliable, then you will find him trustworthy. If you can trust them then he’s a reliable person. Trustworthiness can be ascertained examining his behavior.
You should also look for other characteristics of a reliable person. A reliable matrimonial is one who does not lie to you, cares for you, cares for your needs, cares for your emotions. He also does not try to impose anything or overshadow you, does not laugh at you, does not take you lightly and thinks you as equal. Make sure your matrimonial partner has these characteristics because you want someone you can rely on as your life partner.
How to Find somebody you can trust forever
Finding a partner for your matrimonial need or for dating whom you can trust forever is not that easy. It needs patience and thorough research to find someone who will be your matrimonial partner or dating partner whom you will be able to trust forever.
Trust comes from repetitive tasks of trust and kindness towards you by your partner. A trustworthy matrimonial or dating partner will have a good heart. Not breaking the trust and maintaining it needs a strong heart with good principles. Finding such a person whom you can trust forever will need you to do some research.
Quality matchmaking services and good matrimony sites are the starting point for such a search. You will find your trustworthy matrimonial or dating partner in good matrimonial services and matrimony sites. Not all matchmaking services provider can offer you a source of quality people. Among the profiles listed in the matrimony sites, you need to search for the trustworthy matrimonial partner.
It is not possible to know whether the person is trustworthy just by visiting a few pages of information listed by him/her. So you need to dig deeper to find out about the actual person who can be your partner. The information provided in the profiles can help you to make the basic idea about the type of person the matrimony site profile creator is. Background check is very important in finding out about the profile creator and his personality. The person with a strong and good personality is most likely to be a better person whom you can trust forever.
Trust comes from repetitive tasks of trust and kindness towards you by your partner. A trustworthy matrimonial or dating partner will have a good heart. Not breaking the trust and maintaining it needs a strong heart with good principles. Finding such a person whom you can trust forever will need you to do some research.
Quality matchmaking services and good matrimony sites are the starting point for such a search. You will find your trustworthy matrimonial or dating partner in good matrimonial services and matrimony sites. Not all matchmaking services provider can offer you a source of quality people. Among the profiles listed in the matrimony sites, you need to search for the trustworthy matrimonial partner.
It is not possible to know whether the person is trustworthy just by visiting a few pages of information listed by him/her. So you need to dig deeper to find out about the actual person who can be your partner. The information provided in the profiles can help you to make the basic idea about the type of person the matrimony site profile creator is. Background check is very important in finding out about the profile creator and his personality. The person with a strong and good personality is most likely to be a better person whom you can trust forever.
How to find somebody with whom you feel secure
In a relationship, it is very much important to feel secure for the longevity of the relationship. Without the secure feeling, no matrimonial relationship can survive longer. Everyone wants his/her matrimonial relationship to be long lasting and fulfilling.
Whether you are looking for Hindu Matrimonial, Muslim Matrimonial, Christian Matchmaking, Sikh Matchmaking or other types of matchmaking services, you need to follow certain steps to ensure that you find someone with whom you feel secure.
What makes you feel secure in a relationship? Complete honesty. So, you need to find someone who is honest. Today, in case of online match making and use of matrimony sites, it may not be very easy. First check should be done by browsing the various information provided in the profile you find interesting. The information will divulge about the person. Quality matrimony sites and quality matrimonial services offered by matchmaking agencies, who verify the profiles, are the best places to visit.
What kinds of things make you feel insecure? Lies and treachery. So, if you find out that the profiles of the selected people are not true and full of false information, then you should immediately reject such profiles and people. If you are afraid of being hurt someday by someone, then you need to be more careful with online matrimonial and dating through matrimony sites and matrimonial services providers.
Carefully selecting the people for matrimonial and dating purposes will ensure that you find the people with whom you feel secure and create a long lasting dating and matrimonial relationship.
Whether you are looking for Hindu Matrimonial, Muslim Matrimonial, Christian Matchmaking, Sikh Matchmaking or other types of matchmaking services, you need to follow certain steps to ensure that you find someone with whom you feel secure.
What makes you feel secure in a relationship? Complete honesty. So, you need to find someone who is honest. Today, in case of online match making and use of matrimony sites, it may not be very easy. First check should be done by browsing the various information provided in the profile you find interesting. The information will divulge about the person. Quality matrimony sites and quality matrimonial services offered by matchmaking agencies, who verify the profiles, are the best places to visit.
What kinds of things make you feel insecure? Lies and treachery. So, if you find out that the profiles of the selected people are not true and full of false information, then you should immediately reject such profiles and people. If you are afraid of being hurt someday by someone, then you need to be more careful with online matrimonial and dating through matrimony sites and matrimonial services providers.
Carefully selecting the people for matrimonial and dating purposes will ensure that you find the people with whom you feel secure and create a long lasting dating and matrimonial relationship.
How to find somebody you like from your own
You are the best person to find someone you’d like. If you try to find someone you like from your own, then the possibility of finding the right choice for you increases manifold. Matrimonial services, quality matchmaking services and matrimony sites can help you in finding someone you like from your own.
Online match making has become a prominent way to find someone you like through matrimonial services. Online match making is a faster way to find people you would like. It not only offers you a way to find people right from your home but also allows you to go through numerous profile before deciding the partner for dating or matrimonial services.
First of all, find the best matrimonial services providers and matrimony sites in your area or country. Then create a very good profile of you in the matrimony sites providing all the good information about you. The profile should highlight your virtues and personality.
Once you are done with the profile creating stage, you should search for your probable partner in the matrimony sites. There will be thousands of profiles of probable partners in the matrimony sites. You should narrow down your search by applying different filters according to your preference. Reduce the number of profiles found in the matrimonial services provider sites or matrimony sites to a manageable one.
Background check is a very important step in finding the right partner from your own. You should check the background of the probable partner so that it matches with yours. Partner with the same background is more likely to blend well with you. Once you reduce the number of profiles further down you will find the right choice for you from your own.
Online match making has become a prominent way to find someone you like through matrimonial services. Online match making is a faster way to find people you would like. It not only offers you a way to find people right from your home but also allows you to go through numerous profile before deciding the partner for dating or matrimonial services.
First of all, find the best matrimonial services providers and matrimony sites in your area or country. Then create a very good profile of you in the matrimony sites providing all the good information about you. The profile should highlight your virtues and personality.
Once you are done with the profile creating stage, you should search for your probable partner in the matrimony sites. There will be thousands of profiles of probable partners in the matrimony sites. You should narrow down your search by applying different filters according to your preference. Reduce the number of profiles found in the matrimonial services provider sites or matrimony sites to a manageable one.
Background check is a very important step in finding the right partner from your own. You should check the background of the probable partner so that it matches with yours. Partner with the same background is more likely to blend well with you. Once you reduce the number of profiles further down you will find the right choice for you from your own.
Uniqueness of Indian Wedding and Matrimony
Indian wedding and matrimonial processes are unique. They are totally different from other types of weddings. Uniqueness of Indian wedding in matrimonial methods is assigned to the diversity of Indian culture.
Indian society and culture has different religions and these religions decide the rituals to be performed in different social occasions. The religion also decides the unique ways of Indian wedding and matrimony. Depending on the religion there can be different rituals in Indian Matrimonial and weddings.
Hindu Matrimonial, Muslim Matrimonial and other Matrimonial Services for Christian Matchmaking, Hindu Matchmaking, Sikh Matchmaking, and Muslim matchmaking are available in India. A Hindu matrimonial and wedding service is totally different from a Sikh matchmaking, Christian matchmaking or Muslim matrimonial services.
Desi matchmaking services offered by Indian matrimonial sites include the elements of diverse Indian culture. While creating the Indian matrimonial services for Indians, Indian matrimonial sites take into account the cultural and ritual diversities of different types of wedding and matrimony needs. Most of the Hindu matrimonial rituals are performed using Sanskrit language which is not used in other types of weddings seen in India.
The Hindu marriage act of 1955 governs a large part of Indian wedding and matrimonial processes. Likewise, weddings and matrimonial services of other religions present in India have their separate laws and rituals.
All these different rituals and processes of Indian matrimonial services and wedding, makes it unique. The weddings performed in India are not seen in other places of the world. This uniqueness of Indian weddings makes it more enjoyable and memorable.
Indian society and culture has different religions and these religions decide the rituals to be performed in different social occasions. The religion also decides the unique ways of Indian wedding and matrimony. Depending on the religion there can be different rituals in Indian Matrimonial and weddings.
Hindu Matrimonial, Muslim Matrimonial and other Matrimonial Services for Christian Matchmaking, Hindu Matchmaking, Sikh Matchmaking, and Muslim matchmaking are available in India. A Hindu matrimonial and wedding service is totally different from a Sikh matchmaking, Christian matchmaking or Muslim matrimonial services.
Desi matchmaking services offered by Indian matrimonial sites include the elements of diverse Indian culture. While creating the Indian matrimonial services for Indians, Indian matrimonial sites take into account the cultural and ritual diversities of different types of wedding and matrimony needs. Most of the Hindu matrimonial rituals are performed using Sanskrit language which is not used in other types of weddings seen in India.
The Hindu marriage act of 1955 governs a large part of Indian wedding and matrimonial processes. Likewise, weddings and matrimonial services of other religions present in India have their separate laws and rituals.
All these different rituals and processes of Indian matrimonial services and wedding, makes it unique. The weddings performed in India are not seen in other places of the world. This uniqueness of Indian weddings makes it more enjoyable and memorable.
Five ways to find love and happiness
As a human being, you always want a life full of love and happiness. Your life can have all the love and happiness if you have the right companion with you- be it your wife, girlfriend or someone whom you met through a matrimonial service.
As an Indian, Indian matrimonial offered by Indian matrimonial sites is what you need to find out the perfect companion for you. After you find out your partner using the matrimonial services of a good Indian matrimonial site, the following five ways will help you to find love and happiness in your life.
Be Optimistic
Being optimistic helps you in several ways. Optimistic people are always happy. When you’re optimistic, all people including your partner chosen from the matrimonial services will love you and your presence.
Be Funny
When you use a matrimonial service of an Indian matrimonial site like shadi.com, your partner will check how funny you are. People always love funny people because fun makes your life more livable. Fun brings in happiness to the lives of your partner.
Live in the Moment
Indian matrimonial partners often look for people who live in the moment while selecting someone from an Indian matrimonial service. People who live in the moment never let worries come into their lives and always embrace happiness in every aspect of their lives.
Love Deeply
Once you find your life partner through a matrimonial service, love her/him so deeply and so much that nobody else can offer that unconditional love. If you love your matrimonial partner, then in return you will not only get love but will also find happiness flowing into your lives.
If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything
If you do not have anything nice to say about your partner whom you found through an Indian matrimonial site like shadi.com, then say nothing and keep quite. It is always better to say nothing rather than saying something stupid and nonsense.
These five ways will ensure that love and happiness flood the lives of you and your partner whom you found out from a matrimonial service.
As an Indian, Indian matrimonial offered by Indian matrimonial sites is what you need to find out the perfect companion for you. After you find out your partner using the matrimonial services of a good Indian matrimonial site, the following five ways will help you to find love and happiness in your life.
Be Optimistic
Being optimistic helps you in several ways. Optimistic people are always happy. When you’re optimistic, all people including your partner chosen from the matrimonial services will love you and your presence.
Be Funny
When you use a matrimonial service of an Indian matrimonial site like shadi.com, your partner will check how funny you are. People always love funny people because fun makes your life more livable. Fun brings in happiness to the lives of your partner.
Live in the Moment
Indian matrimonial partners often look for people who live in the moment while selecting someone from an Indian matrimonial service. People who live in the moment never let worries come into their lives and always embrace happiness in every aspect of their lives.
Love Deeply
Once you find your life partner through a matrimonial service, love her/him so deeply and so much that nobody else can offer that unconditional love. If you love your matrimonial partner, then in return you will not only get love but will also find happiness flowing into your lives.
If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything
If you do not have anything nice to say about your partner whom you found through an Indian matrimonial site like shadi.com, then say nothing and keep quite. It is always better to say nothing rather than saying something stupid and nonsense.
These five ways will ensure that love and happiness flood the lives of you and your partner whom you found out from a matrimonial service.
Five ways to find love and happiness
You cannot escape from the laws of attraction and why should you. Finding love is the quest of every human being and that includes you. With so many matrimonial services being available today your search for love has become easier. Through these matrimonial services you can get the love of your life. Love leads to happiness which is very powerful. It can change your life. Choose a reliable and reputed matchmaking services provider to meet someone whom you believe is right for you. Nowadays online match making has become a household name. By utilizing the services of online match making you can discover your life partner sitting at home. You have lot of advantages with these matrimonial services.
- Through a matchmaking services provider you have the choice to view thousands of profiles
- Who knows, these matrimonial services can help you find someone whom you admire instantly
- These online match making portals provide you a great opportunity to fall head over heels in love
- A matchmaking services provider will get you introduced to many like minded suitors
- Matrimonial services enable couples to get to know each other better before tying the knot
How to find your right match?
Using online match making services offered by matchmaking services providers and matrimony sites, you can find hundreds of prospective partners. But this is not the end of the process of finding the right match for you. Rather it can be a very good beginning into finding out the right match.
Whether you are using a matchmaking agency or the matrimonial services offered by a matrimony site, you need to make sure that you take enough care to find out the correct match for yourself.
For finding out the right match, you need to go through the profiles of prospective partners thoroughly. You need to check their background, their personalities, characteristics, nature, and other individual and social traits available in the matrimonial profile in the matrimonial site. People from similar background will be your best match. If your partner whom you have chosen from the matrimony site or through the matchmaking agency share a similar background with you, then your match will not have any problem that may occur between people from two different backgrounds.
The chemistry between you and your partner from the online match making service or matrimony site should be great if you want a successful and happy life. A strong chemistry between two partners will ensure that the relationship stays longer and remains healthy.
It is always better to know and understand your prospective partner before any type of matchmaking or matrimonial association be it Christian Matchmaking, Hindu Matchmaking, Muslim Matrimonial or other types of matchmaking.
Online match making needs more thorough checking because you do not know your prospective partner personally and there can be unscrupulous people hiding behind attractive profiles in matrimony sites.
Whether you are using a matchmaking agency or the matrimonial services offered by a matrimony site, you need to make sure that you take enough care to find out the correct match for yourself.
For finding out the right match, you need to go through the profiles of prospective partners thoroughly. You need to check their background, their personalities, characteristics, nature, and other individual and social traits available in the matrimonial profile in the matrimonial site. People from similar background will be your best match. If your partner whom you have chosen from the matrimony site or through the matchmaking agency share a similar background with you, then your match will not have any problem that may occur between people from two different backgrounds.
The chemistry between you and your partner from the online match making service or matrimony site should be great if you want a successful and happy life. A strong chemistry between two partners will ensure that the relationship stays longer and remains healthy.
It is always better to know and understand your prospective partner before any type of matchmaking or matrimonial association be it Christian Matchmaking, Hindu Matchmaking, Muslim Matrimonial or other types of matchmaking.
Online match making needs more thorough checking because you do not know your prospective partner personally and there can be unscrupulous people hiding behind attractive profiles in matrimony sites.
How to find your soulmate after divorce
Divorce does not mean the end of your life. You can start a life afresh after year divorce. It’s time to move on and enjoy the life bestowed upon you. You need a soulmate to bring in joy and happiness to your life and matrimonial services offered by the matrimony site or a matchmaking agency can do it for you.
Finding your soulmate specially after divorce may not be very easy. You may be skeptical about choosing another partner after your previous relationship went sour. That is why; you should find your soulmate with utmost care and should only use quality matchmaking services. Choose the best matrimonial service from the matchmaking services providers and start your quest for your soulmate.
Visit the online match making and matrimony sites and create your profile there. Be honest about your divorce and clearly specify it in your profile. If you do not want to divulge your personal information such as name, and do not make it public. Then browse through the hundreds of profiles available in matrimony sites.
There are different matrimonial services and matrimony sites available which offer special sections for divorcee. They offer search option for finding out the profiles of divorcee of the opposite sex for you. Go through all these profiles available in the matchmaking agency or matrimony site and then shortlist a few profiles based on your criteria of selection. You should check the background of the person you want to get introduced to, meet and talk. Once you shortlist a few profiles from the matrimonial services, you can chat with them or even meet them to find out whether they suit your personality and background or not. You need to find out everything about your prospective partner so as to ensure that you are finding the right person as your soulmate. Matrimonial services providers and matrimony sites can help you in Hindu Matrimonial, Muslim Matrimonial, Christian Matchmaking, Sikh Matchmaking or any other matrimonial services.
Finding your soulmate specially after divorce may not be very easy. You may be skeptical about choosing another partner after your previous relationship went sour. That is why; you should find your soulmate with utmost care and should only use quality matchmaking services. Choose the best matrimonial service from the matchmaking services providers and start your quest for your soulmate.
Visit the online match making and matrimony sites and create your profile there. Be honest about your divorce and clearly specify it in your profile. If you do not want to divulge your personal information such as name, and do not make it public. Then browse through the hundreds of profiles available in matrimony sites.
There are different matrimonial services and matrimony sites available which offer special sections for divorcee. They offer search option for finding out the profiles of divorcee of the opposite sex for you. Go through all these profiles available in the matchmaking agency or matrimony site and then shortlist a few profiles based on your criteria of selection. You should check the background of the person you want to get introduced to, meet and talk. Once you shortlist a few profiles from the matrimonial services, you can chat with them or even meet them to find out whether they suit your personality and background or not. You need to find out everything about your prospective partner so as to ensure that you are finding the right person as your soulmate. Matrimonial services providers and matrimony sites can help you in Hindu Matrimonial, Muslim Matrimonial, Christian Matchmaking, Sikh Matchmaking or any other matrimonial services.
How to mend a broken heart?
Your partner left you or you have broken out of non functional relationship or marriage! In such cases, you are sure to have a broken heart. With a broken heart, you cannot live like a human being for a long time. You need to mend it as soon as possible. Matrimonial services, matchmaking services provider, matchmaking agency and matrimony sites can help you a lot in mending your broken heart.
In such a hard time, you need a partner will not only understand you but will also help you move on. A partner will help you to get over the pain of a broken heart. Matchmaking services providers and matrimonial sites will help you to get connected to the right partners who will help you to forget all the pain and start your life afresh. Quality matchmaking services such as a good matchmaking agency will ensure that you are connected to the right partner.
Online match making provides a very easy and simple way to connect to partners who share the same beliefs and backgrounds with you and are compatible with you. Online match making allows you to find and connect to hundreds of compatible partners within a few minutes. All these are possible right from your home with online match making matrimonial services. It makes meeting prospective partners easier with just a few clicks. You can view hundreds of profiles of people who can be a very good match for you.
Matrimonial services provided by a matrimony site or a matchmaking agency can help you to forget all your pain and find new friends. With the help of such matrimonial services you will be able to mend your broken heart within a very short time.
In such a hard time, you need a partner will not only understand you but will also help you move on. A partner will help you to get over the pain of a broken heart. Matchmaking services providers and matrimonial sites will help you to get connected to the right partners who will help you to forget all the pain and start your life afresh. Quality matchmaking services such as a good matchmaking agency will ensure that you are connected to the right partner.
Online match making provides a very easy and simple way to connect to partners who share the same beliefs and backgrounds with you and are compatible with you. Online match making allows you to find and connect to hundreds of compatible partners within a few minutes. All these are possible right from your home with online match making matrimonial services. It makes meeting prospective partners easier with just a few clicks. You can view hundreds of profiles of people who can be a very good match for you.
Matrimonial services provided by a matrimony site or a matchmaking agency can help you to forget all your pain and find new friends. With the help of such matrimonial services you will be able to mend your broken heart within a very short time.
Making the right connections online
When you use an online match making service by matrimonial services provider you can find out your life partner faster than traditional matrimonial services. It is free and efficient in finding a partner for you and helping you get rid of boring single life. However, you need to take care so as to make the right connections online.
A connection is deemed right for you when you find someone, using quality matchmaking services, who is compatible with you as a person and with your life. The right connections found through matrimonial services will enhance your life without any coercive in fact on you, your home and your life.
As online match making can connect you to thousands of people so you need to be careful in selecting the right connections online. You need to go through the profile in the matrimony site and check the background, the personality, the likes and dislikes of your prospective partner so as to ensure that he or she is the right connection for you. Once you shortlist a few profiles from the matrimony site, you can go through their background and profiles to ensure that it fits what you’re looking for.
There should be certain chemistry between both of you for the relationship to work. This chemistry can happen between two right connections made through matrimonial sites. Make sure you know about your prospective partner very well before you decide to develop the relationship further.
Even though online match making can be very fast and easy-to-use, you should be always alert about choosing the wrong one to be your life partner.
A connection is deemed right for you when you find someone, using quality matchmaking services, who is compatible with you as a person and with your life. The right connections found through matrimonial services will enhance your life without any coercive in fact on you, your home and your life.
As online match making can connect you to thousands of people so you need to be careful in selecting the right connections online. You need to go through the profile in the matrimony site and check the background, the personality, the likes and dislikes of your prospective partner so as to ensure that he or she is the right connection for you. Once you shortlist a few profiles from the matrimony site, you can go through their background and profiles to ensure that it fits what you’re looking for.
There should be certain chemistry between both of you for the relationship to work. This chemistry can happen between two right connections made through matrimonial sites. Make sure you know about your prospective partner very well before you decide to develop the relationship further.
Even though online match making can be very fast and easy-to-use, you should be always alert about choosing the wrong one to be your life partner.
Mature relationships for Indians
Mature relationships for Indians are far easier today than it was previously. Older singles and divorced people found it difficult to get a partner for themselves. A mature relationship, be it dating or even matrimonial relations, can easily be created today. Indian matrimonial sites and matrimony sites offer desi matchmaking services to people of mature age.
Older singles and divorced people of age 40 or more have some special needs in case of a partner. For dating and for matrimonial purposes mature people need mature relationships. Older singles over age 40 or more will seek for a more stable relationship through matrimony sites. Indian matrimonial sites also offers information about which your singles.
Even for divorcee, Indian matrimonial sites offer a separate section. If you’re a divorcee and are interested in other divorcees as your life partner or for dating, you’ll find them just by going through the various profiles created by divorcees in such matrimony sites.
Desi Matchmaking Services offer Hindu Matrimonial, Muslim Matrimonial, NRI Matrimonial, NRP Matrimonial and other types of editorial services for mature adults. Whether you’re looking for Christian matchmaking, Hindu matchmaking, Sikh matchmaking or any other matchmaking services, you will find them through Indian matrimonial sites and matchmaking services.
These matrimonial sites and quality matchmaking services take special care of mature adults in their needs for mature relationships and so offer separate match making and matrimonial services. You can specify your age and life stage and will be able to find hundreds of matching profiles from which you can choose the right match for you after going through all of them.
Older singles and divorced people of age 40 or more have some special needs in case of a partner. For dating and for matrimonial purposes mature people need mature relationships. Older singles over age 40 or more will seek for a more stable relationship through matrimony sites. Indian matrimonial sites also offers information about which your singles.
Even for divorcee, Indian matrimonial sites offer a separate section. If you’re a divorcee and are interested in other divorcees as your life partner or for dating, you’ll find them just by going through the various profiles created by divorcees in such matrimony sites.
Desi Matchmaking Services offer Hindu Matrimonial, Muslim Matrimonial, NRI Matrimonial, NRP Matrimonial and other types of editorial services for mature adults. Whether you’re looking for Christian matchmaking, Hindu matchmaking, Sikh matchmaking or any other matchmaking services, you will find them through Indian matrimonial sites and matchmaking services.
These matrimonial sites and quality matchmaking services take special care of mature adults in their needs for mature relationships and so offer separate match making and matrimonial services. You can specify your age and life stage and will be able to find hundreds of matching profiles from which you can choose the right match for you after going through all of them.
Online marriages on the upward trend
Online marriages are very popular these days. The popularity of online marriages is attributed to the benefits it offers. It offers ease of use, flexibility, faster response and no cost advantages to people looking for matrimonial services. Be it Hindu Matrimonial, Muslim Matrimonial, Christian Matchmaking, Sikh Matchmaking or any other matrimonial services, online match making and matrimony sites are making life easier for people in need of matrimonial services.
Today with online match making available through various matrimonial sites which offer quality matchmaking services, people no longer have to run around to find out the right soulmate for themselves. With online match making, the matrimonial services seekers now have more options with them. They can view hundreds of profiles of eligible partners with the help of online match making services and matrimony sites.
Online match making also offers matrimonial services seekers the ability to contact prospective partners faster. Two people can chat, e-mail and speak with each other through various matrimony sites, which is not possible in case of traditional matrimonial services.
Again online marriages arranged through online match making does not cost anything for finding out the right partner. Creating a profile in a matrimony site is easier and cost free. You can create a profile without paying anything to anybody and just by creating an account in a matrimony site.
Creating a free account in a matrimony site, searching through hundreds of profiles of prospective partners, selecting a few of them, chatting, e-mailing or talking to them- all these are possible right from your home. You do not have to go out anywhere to find out the right match for you as a life partner. It also saves lots of time which you would have otherwise wasted visiting matrimonial services and matchmaking services providers’ offices.
Today with online match making available through various matrimonial sites which offer quality matchmaking services, people no longer have to run around to find out the right soulmate for themselves. With online match making, the matrimonial services seekers now have more options with them. They can view hundreds of profiles of eligible partners with the help of online match making services and matrimony sites.
Online match making also offers matrimonial services seekers the ability to contact prospective partners faster. Two people can chat, e-mail and speak with each other through various matrimony sites, which is not possible in case of traditional matrimonial services.
Again online marriages arranged through online match making does not cost anything for finding out the right partner. Creating a profile in a matrimony site is easier and cost free. You can create a profile without paying anything to anybody and just by creating an account in a matrimony site.
Creating a free account in a matrimony site, searching through hundreds of profiles of prospective partners, selecting a few of them, chatting, e-mailing or talking to them- all these are possible right from your home. You do not have to go out anywhere to find out the right match for you as a life partner. It also saves lots of time which you would have otherwise wasted visiting matrimonial services and matchmaking services providers’ offices.
People function better when loved and cherished
When people love and value you, you feel good, become enthusiastic and do better in life. Love is a big event in the success of your life. If love is there in your life then not only you do better but you also perform bigger tasks. Love has really great importance in your life.
Love and appreciation can be found with the help of matrimonial services offered by matchmaking services providers through a matrimony site or a matchmaking agency. Such a matrimony site or matchmaking agency can serve your need of different types of matrimonial services such as Christian matchmaking, Hindu matchmaking, Muslim matrimonial services or any other area based or religion-based matrimonial services.
When you know that someone is there who loves you and values you, you feel more important, tend to become more active and passionate towards life and all these show in your behavior. Your life fills with happiness and tranquility. But you should find the right partner for your life so as to get all these benefits. Quality matchmaking services and matrimonial services can help you in your quest for the chosen right partner for your life.
Depending on your personnel taste and requirement, you can browse through the profiles of prospective partners are available in the matrimonial services in a matrimony site or a matchmaking agency. Such matrimonial services will bring you the best partner for you which will help you to become a better person with more success and better results.
So, find the love of your life using matrimony sites and quality matchmaking services and make your life better one. Join a matrimony site today and leverage the benefits of online match making.
Love and appreciation can be found with the help of matrimonial services offered by matchmaking services providers through a matrimony site or a matchmaking agency. Such a matrimony site or matchmaking agency can serve your need of different types of matrimonial services such as Christian matchmaking, Hindu matchmaking, Muslim matrimonial services or any other area based or religion-based matrimonial services.
When you know that someone is there who loves you and values you, you feel more important, tend to become more active and passionate towards life and all these show in your behavior. Your life fills with happiness and tranquility. But you should find the right partner for your life so as to get all these benefits. Quality matchmaking services and matrimonial services can help you in your quest for the chosen right partner for your life.
Depending on your personnel taste and requirement, you can browse through the profiles of prospective partners are available in the matrimonial services in a matrimony site or a matchmaking agency. Such matrimonial services will bring you the best partner for you which will help you to become a better person with more success and better results.
So, find the love of your life using matrimony sites and quality matchmaking services and make your life better one. Join a matrimony site today and leverage the benefits of online match making.
Tired of being single? try online matchmaking
You have been single for quite some time now. But you don’t like it. Nobody does. Everybody in this world wants a companion. Even animals too choose their companion. You need someone who you can talk to about your life, your dreams, your aspirations and open up your mind. Now with matrimonial and matchmaking services you can find your life partner from your home who can be your partner for life.
Any matchmaking agency and matrimonial services can help you in finding out your life partner and save you from the mundaneness of life. Without a partner your single life can be very boring and lifeless. To change that, you just have to search for your life partner using online match making or any other matrimonial services.
Online match making services providers bring together single people from different areas and get them together in a platform where they can chat, talk, e-mail and see each other. Matrimonial services allow you to see and talk to other singles of the opposite sex and help you find out the person who is best suited to become your life partner. Matrimonial and online match making services allow you to meet with several possible partners before you can decide which one to choose.
The benefits of online match making-
Any matchmaking agency and matrimonial services can help you in finding out your life partner and save you from the mundaneness of life. Without a partner your single life can be very boring and lifeless. To change that, you just have to search for your life partner using online match making or any other matrimonial services.
Online match making services providers bring together single people from different areas and get them together in a platform where they can chat, talk, e-mail and see each other. Matrimonial services allow you to see and talk to other singles of the opposite sex and help you find out the person who is best suited to become your life partner. Matrimonial and online match making services allow you to meet with several possible partners before you can decide which one to choose.
The benefits of online match making-
- You find out your life partner and no longer have to live the boring life of a single.
- Search through various matrimonial profiles provided by matrimonial services providers before deciding whom to contact and talk with.
- You can chat, talk and see your prospective partner.
- You can do everything right from your home through online match making.
Why marriage is good for you
Marriage is good for you. Matrimonial proposal from you or your partner could result in your marriage. Matrimonial services, matchmaking services provider, matchmaking agency and matrimonial sites help you to find your ultimate soulmate.
Through quality matchmaking services you find out here like partner. The matrimonial services by matrimonial sites help you to find the right partner for your life. If you find the right life partner, then your marriage will be a bliss.
Marriage is good for you because it ends your boring single life and makes you feel good. You are not alone anymore. You have a companion for your life who will stand by your side all lifelong. Such a partner can help you to enjoy life to the fullest possible limit.
Matrimonial process brings you a life partner with whom you can share your happiness and sadness. In happier times you have somebody to share the news with and in times of sadness you will have someone who will support you. Matrimonial services help you to get married as and when you like.
With marriage, matrimonial services help you to start a new life. This life is quite different from the life you have been living as a single. This new life that you gain from marriage teaches you to become more responsible and understanding. You acquire new skills and traits while maintaining this life.
Marriage through matrimonial proposals also bestow upon a healthy sex life. You enjoy the benefits of sex while living in the social boundaries. Matrimonial happenings and marriage also brings you many joys of life such as a faithful life partner, kids and social relations.
Through quality matchmaking services you find out here like partner. The matrimonial services by matrimonial sites help you to find the right partner for your life. If you find the right life partner, then your marriage will be a bliss.
Marriage is good for you because it ends your boring single life and makes you feel good. You are not alone anymore. You have a companion for your life who will stand by your side all lifelong. Such a partner can help you to enjoy life to the fullest possible limit.
Matrimonial process brings you a life partner with whom you can share your happiness and sadness. In happier times you have somebody to share the news with and in times of sadness you will have someone who will support you. Matrimonial services help you to get married as and when you like.
With marriage, matrimonial services help you to start a new life. This life is quite different from the life you have been living as a single. This new life that you gain from marriage teaches you to become more responsible and understanding. You acquire new skills and traits while maintaining this life.
Marriage through matrimonial proposals also bestow upon a healthy sex life. You enjoy the benefits of sex while living in the social boundaries. Matrimonial happenings and marriage also brings you many joys of life such as a faithful life partner, kids and social relations.
Why is it essential to have a complete profile with photograph?
You may be in two minds about putting up your photograph or your daughter’s or son’s, when you are filling in the matrimonial profile on any of the Indian matrimonial or online matchmaking site. It is understandable as you may have qualms about the misuse of your photo by scammers for other illegal purposes, but that is far from truth. No one is basically waiting to pick your photograph and start using it for other purposes. It is like two sides of a coin. However, when you are looking for a life partner, your profile gives a window into your personality, attitudes, likes and dislikes but adding a photograph, is relates that information to a person.
Usually matrimony sites have thousands of photographs of boys and girls and you may lose out if you don’t put a photograph in your own profile. As per the feedback and studies done, it has been seen that people tend to view more profiles with photographs as compared to the written profile without a face to relate to. Online matrimonial profiles with photographs make it inadvertently more attractive to viewers and when you are looking for a partner, a likeable face adds charm to the written profile.
Though not everyone looks like a super model, but you can accentuate your features with professionally clicked photographs. Other than that if you want to put a photo with your online matrimonial site profile, keep in mind a few points to make sure that you look your best.
For girls looking to get profile photographs:
Usually matrimony sites have thousands of photographs of boys and girls and you may lose out if you don’t put a photograph in your own profile. As per the feedback and studies done, it has been seen that people tend to view more profiles with photographs as compared to the written profile without a face to relate to. Online matrimonial profiles with photographs make it inadvertently more attractive to viewers and when you are looking for a partner, a likeable face adds charm to the written profile.
Though not everyone looks like a super model, but you can accentuate your features with professionally clicked photographs. Other than that if you want to put a photo with your online matrimonial site profile, keep in mind a few points to make sure that you look your best.
For girls looking to get profile photographs:
- Don’t put on layers of make up to look stark white, dusky complexions are also beautiful. Just use light makeup that help to accentuate your features. Be realistic.
- Wear clothes you are comfortable in, but avoid revealing, too short or overtly modern dresses. You are looking for a husband, not a modelling assignment.
- Looking groomed is a good idea. Avoid striking awkward poses for the profile photographs.
- Avoid sunglasses as your eyes reveal a lot about your personality.
- Smart dressing is essential. Shirt and pants or tee shirts and jeans look well.
Top 5 things you look for in the first meeting
After you talk or chat online at a NRI matrimonial site or use a quality matchmaking services, you would want to take the relationship to the next level by meeting the individual. First impressions are the last impressions which become the first step towards building a relationship. Other factors come into play to decide whether it will later lead to marriage or not. Basically, you notice the body language, talking style and the behaviour, the first time you meet your prospective bride or groom. The top 5 things that you need to look at in a person are:
Eye Contact: As it said, eyes are the window to a person’s soul and eye contact is essential while talking. Proper eye contact while meeting is a positive sign or interest in you. While shifty looking eyes that look over you or the person avoids eye contact should be avoided.
Body Language: Being at ease and an interest in you needs to be judged. If you find the person you meet with crossed arms, it signifies negative response but if his eyes, smile and open hands are showing a positive response, think positive! Thus being calm composed and confident approach leaves a positive first impression.
Personality and Behaviour: Having a positive personality can make a good first impression. Check if the person is trying to put on airs or the total behaviour or etiquettes in public. You also need to notice if the person show interest in you or goes on gabbing about him or herself.
Appearance: Personal appearance and dressing as per the occasion tells a lot about a person. A well dressed (not overtly modern or conservative) is considered attractive. Neat, groomed and dressed well can leave a good impression.
Smile and Expressions: Though you may not be a mind reader, but noticing facial expressions can help you form an opinion about a person. A warm genuine smile can create a positive opinion. Look for subtle signs of interest, talk about interests, hobbies and dislikes. Note the facial expressions and smile. This will help you judge a person better.
Eye Contact: As it said, eyes are the window to a person’s soul and eye contact is essential while talking. Proper eye contact while meeting is a positive sign or interest in you. While shifty looking eyes that look over you or the person avoids eye contact should be avoided.
Body Language: Being at ease and an interest in you needs to be judged. If you find the person you meet with crossed arms, it signifies negative response but if his eyes, smile and open hands are showing a positive response, think positive! Thus being calm composed and confident approach leaves a positive first impression.
Personality and Behaviour: Having a positive personality can make a good first impression. Check if the person is trying to put on airs or the total behaviour or etiquettes in public. You also need to notice if the person show interest in you or goes on gabbing about him or herself.
Appearance: Personal appearance and dressing as per the occasion tells a lot about a person. A well dressed (not overtly modern or conservative) is considered attractive. Neat, groomed and dressed well can leave a good impression.
Smile and Expressions: Though you may not be a mind reader, but noticing facial expressions can help you form an opinion about a person. A warm genuine smile can create a positive opinion. Look for subtle signs of interest, talk about interests, hobbies and dislikes. Note the facial expressions and smile. This will help you judge a person better.
When is a good time to give him my number?
As soon as you register on an Indian matrimonial site or any of the NRI matrimonial, you are on the lookout of prospective grooms. After a few emails, you zero on a few prospective grooms, and have started chatting online, email them and then you need to talk to them directly on the phone. In most cases, the prospective bridegroom would be interested in talking to you directly. This is a confusing situation as you may or may not be comfortable about giving your phone number just after a few chats or online interactions.
However, most of the quality matchmaking services offer privacy options and when you give your phone number is your prerogative. However, giving your phone number is your decision, but do consider a few points will help you keep safe and away from red flags.
These are a few simple tips to be sure that you give your number to genuine men who are actually interested in taking the relationship to the next level.
However, most of the quality matchmaking services offer privacy options and when you give your phone number is your prerogative. However, giving your phone number is your decision, but do consider a few points will help you keep safe and away from red flags.
- Meet online, chat and even use the webcam during chat to study the body language of the person. If someone sounds desperate to get your phone number, be on your guard. It might turn out to a flake or a red flag.
- Only consider giving your phone number after you are satisfied to a certain extend that the person sounds genuine. In most cases, chat at least 8-10 times before you think of giving out your phone number.
- Be sure that you want to take the relationship to the next level with that person, before you get off the website and start calling up.
- Talk to your family members, discuss with them and as each family has different outlook, it is best to go with the flow, before you give your number.
- To be on the safe side, get a new SIM card instead of using your regular one and give that number to prospective grooms. This will ensure that you do not end up being disturbed at odd times during the day with personal calls, while in the office. Having a second phone will also ensure that you don’t have problems, if you feel you are being stalked or need to change your number, if it doesn’t work out.
These are a few simple tips to be sure that you give your number to genuine men who are actually interested in taking the relationship to the next level.
